So long as I perceive the world as hostile, I remain linked to it: *I am not crazy*. But sometimes, once my bad temper is exhausted, I have no language left at all: the world is not "unreal" (I could then utter it: there are arts of the unreal, among them the greatest arts of all), but disreal: reality has fled from it, is nowhere, so that I no longer have any meaning (any paradigm) available to me; *I do not manage* to define my relations with Coluche, the restaurant, the painter, the Piazza del Popolo. What relation can I have with a system of power if I am neither its slave nor its accomplice nor its witness." –from_A Lover's Discourse: Fragments_ .Roland Barthes
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"I perceive the world as hostile" which is a reference to how people often perceive the world as a threatening place. When one is in a state of rage they don't notice or even see their surroundings as a place of comfort and happiness. They look at the world as a place where they have to struggle and fight for everything they have. But when one can no longer hold onto their anger they can see the world as a place that they can enjoy and appreciate.
They realize that the world is not their enemy but it is just a place that they need to enjoy from time to time. When they go back to being themselves there are some people who will be happy for them and others who will try to pull them back into their old ways.
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